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  • The Endless Race: Striving to Stay on Track

    May 17th, 2024

    In the grand theater of life, we are all runners on an invisible track. Our purpose isn’t merely to sprint toward victory; it’s to remain within the boundaries of existence. Each day, we lace up our metaphorical shoes and step onto the course, knowing that the struggle is ceaseless and our journey is marked by falls, rises, and relentless effort to stay on course.

    This narrative applies universally—to every human being. Unlike quantifiable pursuits such as wealth accumulation, profit margins, academic degrees, or sports medals, our daily existence is a race of its own.

    Allow me to illustrate this concept through the lens of a mother. Imagine her morning: the clock ticks relentlessly, breakfast remains unprepared, and the tiffin dabba sits empty. She accelerates, all four burners ablaze on the stove, yet it’s still insufficient. The challenge escalates when she discovers her child still asleep, with only 30 minutes until the school bus arrives. Juggling between the kitchen—where milk boils and parathas sizzle—and the bedroom—where her drowsy child clings to the cozy bed—her objective is simple: “stay” in the race by ensuring her child attends school. Winning isn’t the goal; persistence is.

    Now, shift focus to the typical male corporate worker. Beneath the surface of their external competition lies an internal struggle. They race against themselves, driven by fear—the fear of the unknown, of being left behind, and of disappointing their families. These modern breadwinners no longer operate in isolation; they share household chores and parenting responsibilities with their spouses. Picture a man rushing to a crucial meeting after dropping off his child. Dreams of a big house, a nice car, and quality education for their children propel him. But as he speeds to the office, a message arrives: the client is imminent. Traffic ensnares him, elevators elude him, yet he persists. His daily race begins at dawn and continues until he reaches his cubicle.

    The student writing an exam mirrors my story. Time is scarce; it’s not about acing the paper but about staying on track. Even thorough preparation doesn’t guarantee completion. Imagine a driver navigating a treacherous gorge. His race? Not merely arriving on time, but reaching the destination. His struggle echoes countless examples where we run not for victory, but to remain on track. An overzealous desire to win often leads to failure. So, like the tortoise, staying in the race matters more than sprinting to the finish line.

  • A Busy Market vis-a-vis A Celebration of Emotions.

    February 16th, 2024

    I’m not particularly fond of big brands. While I have the financial means to indulge in many of them and can appreciate those who carry them with grace, it just doesn’t resonate with me. Now, you might wonder why I’m starting with this note. The reason is that people tend to judge my shopping choices. However, I firmly believe that one’s shopping preferences are a personal choice. My entire narrative below is centered around my love for shopping in bustling markets rather than fancy air-conditioned malls.

    With an immense love for shopping, I recently visited a busy marketplace in Delhi, which I consider a shopping paradise. The cacophony created by the mixture of vehicle honks and hawkers shouting at the top of their voices adds to the overall amusement, akin to the background score of a theatrical movie.

    After shopping to the extent where my hands were full of shopping bags but my bank account half empty, I found a corner to sit among many with my super drink, Golisoda, surrounded by small shops and hawkers. This is where my observations began.

    The scene started with a couple arguing over the color of a foot mat, and I was amused; a topic of argument indeed. I don’t know who won in the end, but I witnessed both of them walking away hand in hand with the foot mat, sporting sweet smiles. Another captivating scene involved a 5-year-old giving her opinion on which color clip to wear with a specific dress, and her mom explaining color balancing with simple terms. I loved how the little one was already gaining knowledge about colors – it’s a school beyond school.

    As my soda ran out, I began walking towards my car to unload the shopping bags so I could restart. Walking amidst showrooms, where the noise was far less due to a smaller crowd, I heard a man singing the Baby Shark theme song while browsing his phone. This made me curious and compelled me to observe more. I entered a showroom with the pretense of buying something and found a toddler in a stroller. The man singing the Baby Shark theme song was babysitting him while his partner was busy selecting items. Again, I felt a sense of awe – Baby Shark is now the theme song for families with toddlers! I not only left the showroom with the happiness of seeing love around but also with a pair of clothes. Now, I walked towards my car, unloaded the baggage, and planned to restart but not before satisfying my growling stomach. I went to a chaat stall and indulged in golgappas . In the mayhem of having one golgappa in my mouth, one in my hand, one in my plate, and one in the facilitator’s hand, I witnessed a beautiful scene. An old mother was continuously insisted by her middle-aged son to have the chaat. As she was not agreeing, he took the initiative of feeding her, and she took it with utmost satisfaction. It was a feeling of responsibility, a reversal of roles as we and our most affectionate ones age.

    After overcoming the challenge the golgappa posed and witnessing the satisfying scene of the mother-son duo, I moved towards a hawker selling beautiful earrings cheaper than a Dairy Milk. I chose five pairs, and while selecting the sixth one, I noticed a teenage boy, probably a ragpicker, asking someone to buy one pair for him. I was surprised, and upon eavesdropping, I found out it was for his elder sister’s birthday. By the time I could react to gift her, someone else had already bought him two pairs. Generosity prevails, and I firmly believe that we can never lose that.

    When I reached out to the hawker for payment, he said he only accepted cash, which I didn’t have at that time. Consequently, an example of the best camaraderie unfolded before my eyes – he asked his competitor to take UPI payment from me. That’s the friendship we talk about.

    With a mobile ring, I was back to my shopping saga, and I saw my husband calling. I was overwhelmed, thinking he might be worried for me, as I didn’t anticipate that my shopping spree would be so lengthy. As I kept my chores unplanned, he too might be feeling the chaos. To my surprise, he asked what I would like to have for dinner, as he was sure I would reach home by dinner time. I was awestruck when he asked about my daughter’s study plan. Again, I witnessed the shift of responsibility.

    Enough was done for that day, and as I bid goodbye to the place, I felt life is such a bouquet of boons surrounding us. I was amazed at how these relationships get celebrated every day in any busy marketplace – it’s a blast of all types of emotions.

  • WE, Woman Being – Career Progression – Part1

    January 24th, 2024

    Elevating performance in a woman’s career progression through Realization, Implementation, Continuous Improvement

    Biologically and genetically, women confront inherent challenges on the path of career progression—a reality acknowledged with grace and contentment. Among these challenges, motherhood emerges as one of the most significant milestones. Rather than viewing it as a hindrance, we embrace motherhood as the purest and most cherished gift from God. Drawing from over a decade and a half of work experience, a resounding conclusion has emerged: women must approach their professional paths with calculated foresight, particularly when balancing desires, aspirations, ambitions, and financial dependencies for a stable and progressive career.

    Recognizing the unique challenges we the “Woman being” face, according to me it becomes imperative to weave a narrative around three crucial phases: Realization, Implementation, and Continuous Improvement. For me these phases are not just a roadmap but a tailored strategy to address the intricacies of the workplace landscape for women. Before delving into these phases, however, self-motivation stands as the indisputable mantra, the proverbial Brahmastra, essential before any deep dive into the challenges and opportunities presented by the Realization, Implementation, and Continuous Improvement framework. And here is my take on the three phases:

    Realization marks the initial phase in our journey, where, as women, we embark on a crucial self-assessment to comprehend our standing among peers and strategically plan steps to ensure we never lag behind our key objectives. This pivotal process begins with a thorough examination of our skills, strengths, and aspirations. It involves identifying career goals and objectives, carefully considering both short-term milestones and long-term ambitions.

    Once objectives are defined through this self-assessment, the subsequent step involves cultivating an acute “Awareness of Barriers.” It entails recognizing and acknowledging potential hurdles and challenges that may surface along our career paths—challenges like gender bias, stereotypes, and the intricate balance between health and work-life priorities. Personally, I prioritize health as a paramount factor, understanding that its care is essential to navigate potential obstacles, ensuring minor hindrances don’t escalate into major impediments.

    With the identification of potential barriers, the imperative next step is to initiate “Networking and Mentoring.” Building a robust support network, seeking mentorship, and establishing connections with fellow professionals become vital. This proactive approach not only offers valuable insights but also provides indispensable advice and guidance to navigate the intricacies of challenges and seize opportunities along the way.

    Implementation phase marks the commencement of the tangible journey toward Career Progression. The first step involves thorough preparation to seize forthcoming opportunities. The primary focus during this phase is on “Skill Development,” necessitating a proactive pursuit of opportunities for continuous learning and enhancement. Engaging in workshops, training programs, or further education is instrumental in fortifying skills and ensuring competitiveness remains at the forefront.

    In a previous blog, I emphasized the importance of “Talking more” as a means to facilitate self-advocacy and assertiveness. Given that women often grow up with introverted tendencies, it becomes imperative to cultivate techniques enabling active self-advocacy. This involves seeking promotions, assuming leadership roles, and participating in projects that contribute significantly to professional growth.

    While striving to implement our Career Goals, preserving the essence of being a woman is paramount. Therefore, an integral aspect is adopting a “Work-Life Integration” approach. Developing effective strategies to manage this integration requires seeking flexible work arrangements, establishing clear communication of boundaries, and fostering an environment that actively supports a healthy work-life balance. This holistic approach ensures that, as women, we not only progress in our careers but also maintain the authenticity of our identities.

    Continuous Improvement and its essence lie in its indispensability for staying competitive in the ever-evolving landscape of career progression. It is a relentless iteration of the Realization and Implementation phases, representing a dynamic commitment to ongoing growth that cannot be stalled or compromised.

    “Feedback and Reflection” form the backbone of this phase, urging individuals to actively seek regular feedback on their performance. Reflecting on achievements and areas for improvement becomes instrumental in fine-tuning career strategies and recalibrating goals. This dedication to continuous learning becomes the bedrock for sustained growth.

    Engaging with professional communities and women’s networks encapsulates the concept of “Community Engagement.” Actively participating in these forums facilitates the exchange of experiences, mutual learning, and contribution to initiatives fostering gender diversity and equity. It’s a collective effort where, by fixing each other’s crowns through “Advocacy for Others,” women in leadership positions play a pivotal role. Progressing in our careers translates into a responsibility to contribute to the ongoing improvement of workplace environments. This involves advocating for diversity and inclusion, mentoring fellow women, and serving as role models for future generations, thereby nurturing a culture of empowerment and inclusivity.

    To conclude, understanding the distinctive challenges inherent in our experience as women, I find it crucial to construct a personalized strategy with “Realization, Implementation and Continuous Improvement” that is designed to navigate the complexities of the workplace environment specific to women. Furthermore, this composition is tailor-made for a specific community, recognizing the resilience and determination demanded of women to navigate their careers triumphantly. Reflecting on my own journey, I wish I had identified these principles earlier— it could have altered the trajectory of my career significantly. Therefore, I aspire for this piece to function as a guide, underscoring the significance of strategic planning, perpetual learning, and steadfast self-motivation. These elements are crucial in steering towards a stable and progressive professional journey, even amidst the distinctive biological and genetic factors that women often contend with.

  • 2024 – Goal – Pursuit for Excellence!!

    January 5th, 2024

    Pursuit of excellence is a journey rather than a destination. It’s a mindset that involves constant improvement and a commitment to deliver our best in all aspects of life. This encapsulates the commitment and continuous effort to achieve the highest standards and quality in one’s endeavors. Whether it’s personal development, professional growth, or the pursuit of goals, the quest for excellence involves a combination of passion, dedication, and a willingness to go above and beyond.

    In my pursuit of excellence, I find myself on a journey marked by self-discovery, learning, and a relentless commitment to growth. This pursuit isn’t just about achieving specific goals; I will take this as a way of life—an ongoing process that should shape my character, actions, and aspirations. For me, the goals for this dynamic and ongoing process are characterized by:

    Quantity with Quality:

                The balance between producing a significant amount of work or products and ensuring that each item meets a high standard of excellence. It’s a principle that recognizes the importance of both quantity and quality in various aspects of life, including business, manufacturing, education, and personal development. Striking the right balance between quantity and quality is essential for achieving efficiency, meeting demand, and maintaining a positive reputation.

    Realistic with Idealistic:

                The harmonious integration of practical, achievable approaches (realistic) with visionary, aspirational goals (idealistic). Balancing these two perspectives is essential for navigating the complexities of life, work, and personal development. And this balanced approach allows individuals and organizations to set achievable goals that leads towards a more meaningful and aspirational vision.

    Accountability , Ownership with Responsibility :

                Accountability, ownership, and responsibility are interconnected principles that contribute to a culture of trust, efficiency, and success in both personal and organizational contexts. Individuals who embody these principles are often key contributors to high-performing teams and thriving workplaces

    Empowerment with Mentoring

                A powerful combination that can significantly contribute to personal and professional development. Empowerment involves granting individuals the authority, autonomy, and resources to take control of their own lives and make informed decisions. Mentoring, on the other hand, is a supportive and guiding relationship where a more experienced or knowledgeable individual provides advice, encouragement, and insights to a less experienced person.

    Learn and Unlearn

       This is a philosophy that champions lifelong learning, adaptability, and personal and professional growth. It acknowledges that embracing change, staying open-minded, and shedding outdated beliefs are essential for navigating the complexities of the modern world.

    Talk MORE (sense) with Listen more- Be Vocal and Be Loud

                This underscores the importance of effective communication that involves both expressing oneself clearly and actively listening to others. This balanced approach fosters meaningful conversations, collaboration, and a culture of mutual understanding. It encourages individuals to express their ideas thoughtfully, advocate for their beliefs, actively listen to others, and contribute to a collaborative and inclusive environment.

    Integrity with Excellence:

                This represents a holistic and principled approach to personal and professional conduct. It is a commitment to ethical behavior, transparency, and the pursuit of the highest standards, resulting in quality outcomes and enduring relationships. The integration of integrity and excellence is a powerful foundation for individual and organizational success.

    To conclude, a key takeaway for me setting SMART Goals, defining Road Map, Embracing Feedback, learning continuously, collaborating, Managing Time are the key activities in this journey. And True excellence is often fueled by Passion. When we love what we do, we are more likely to invest the time and effort required to excel.

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